You’ll Thank Us Later

Come Get Cozy for Fall With Us

It’s almost fall, and we’re leaning into all things cozy. From crisp mornings and warm sweaters to comfort shows and seasonal rituals, this minisode is about what makes the shift into autumn feel fun (and sometimes a little ridiculous). Grab your coffee, light a candle, and join us for an easy, lighthearted conversation to welcome the season.

Raising Kids in a Social Media World

Coty asks Christine and Saphira about raising kids in a social media world and how to gauge what is "right" and what isn't. From Snapchat streaks and Discord rooms to privacy, agency, and “what’s yours to share vs. theirs,” the crew gets candid about when to hand over a phone, how to set boundaries without creating obsession, and why your relationship with screens at home matters. Saphira has never been on social, and Christine runs a social media agency, so they have very different experiences with tackling screens and social media with kids.

Our Guilty Pleasures

Christine shows up sun-kissed, coffee in hand, and fully committed to dropping the “guilty” from guilty pleasures. From Real Housewives of London via VPN hacks to Below Deck debates, the team swaps Bravo opinions, reunion hot takes, and why frivolous TV is sometimes the best kind of self-care. We veer into audiobook obsessions, spicy fantasy reads (hi, ACOTAR and Fourth Wing), and those true-crime podcasts that somehow lull you to sleep. There’s people-watching in Adirondack chairs, Shake Shack tallow-fries rumors, dive-bar nostalgia, Botox confessions, and a vow to level-up Halloween costumes this year. It’s proof that little joys make a big difference. You’ll thank us later.

Transition Season

Work ramps up, school’s back, birthdays pile up—aka September sprint. Christine shares turning “level 48,” starting her Rutgers master’s, and rebuilding the MtoM site. Saphira discusses launching Luca to college overseas and reframing birthdays and other significant transitions. Coty debuts her paid Substack food blog and how she’s thinking about paywalls, recipes, and community. Transition season is hard, but it can also be hopeful, and maybe this is the pep talk you need to get through your own transitions.

Dating Rules: Then, Now, and Never Again

Christine, Courtney, and Coty compare what dating looked like years ago versus today. Christine shares stories from her bar-hopping, setup-by-friends era (plus a couple of very bad early online dates), while Coty talks about app culture, profile disasters, and why she’s stepped away from swiping. Courtney reflects on how she skipped apps altogether by meeting her husband in college. Together, they get into what really matters—timing, logistics, family influence, and finding someone who makes you laugh.

Gas Station Weed and Other Bad Ideas

Christine, Saphira, and the crew dig into one of the most misunderstood topics out there — cannabis. From the headlines about rescheduling at the federal level to the hidden dangers of “gas station weed,” they break down what’s legal, what’s safe, and why your local convenience store gummy might not be what you think it is. Saphira explains the difference between regulated dispensary products and untested synthetics, why state-by-state rules are so confusing, and how to be a smart consumer. Christine shares her own cautious approach, plus some eyebrow-raising product options you probably didn’t know existed (yes, suppositories are on the list). Whether you’re curious about CBD creams, THC beverages, or just want to avoid rookie mistakes, this episode arms you with the knowledge to navigate the cannabis world safely — and skip the sketchy stuff.

What No One Tells You About Your First Pregnancy

When our producer Courtney shares she’s 21 weeks pregnant, the conversation quickly turns into an unfiltered crash course in first-time pregnancy and newborn survival. Christine and Saphira swap their wildly different birth stories—from mucus plug mysteries and epidurals to the unexpected realities of breastfeeding, baby gear, and why “less is more” when it comes to cute outfits. Along the way, you’ll hear the advice they wish they’d followed, the advice they wish they hadn’t, and the products that actually made life easier. It’s funny, candid, occasionally graphic, and exactly the kind of talk your best friends would give you before the baby arrives. We can't wait to meet Courtney's little girl!!

Let Them (and Let Me): A Mel Robbins Book Club Throwdown

Christine, Saphira, and guest producer Coty Ryan sit down to unpack Mel Robbins’ wildly popular book Let Them—and, naturally, they don’t all agree. From first impressions and personal resistance to the idea of self-help books, to real-life applications of the “Let Them” and “Let Me” mindsets, this episode covers everything from parenting and friendships to Reddit trolls and relationship red flags.
Christine shares how the book helped her let go of control as a mom. Saphira reframes the theory into her own powerful mantra, “I decide,” while Cody wrestles with the repetitiveness but still finds value in family dynamics and boundaries. 
What do you think about Mel Robbins' Let Them Theory? Are you in or are you annoyed?

The Business of Influencing with Coty Ryan

This week on You’ll Thank Us Later, Christine and Saphira welcome Coty Ryan—food influencer, content creator, and now guest producer on the pod! From mukbangs and TikTok fame to contracts, managers, and PR hauls, Coty shares the real deal about the business behind influencing. She opens up about her start during the pandemic, her viral growth, and how she makes money on and off the platforms. The trio also gets real about snark pages, mental health, and the emotional toll of being online. Plus, what happens when your family doesn’t quite get your job? And how do we support the next generation of women while learning to manage our own stress, self-doubt, and avoidance tactics?
This episode provides insight into the influencer economy, and yes, we do talk sex toys (briefly). Follow Coty on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube- @beautyofthefoodie

From Sushi to Sizzling Onsens: Saphira’s Epic Adventure in Japan

In this season 2 kickoff of You’ll Thank Us Later, Saphira returns from her whirlwind trip to Japan with stories, advice, and plenty of surprises. Christine, Courtney, and Nicole grill her on every detail—what to eat, where to go, what not to do (chewing gum on a train, for starters), and why Japan might just be the cleanest, safest, most courteous place on the planet.
Saphira spills on her action-packed itinerary, including relaxing in centuries-old ryokans, navigating the language barrier with a translation beeper, savoring melt-in-your-mouth Hida beef, and braving tiny Pink Floyd-themed restaurants in alleyway sheds. She gives honest advice about travel logistics, heat exhaustion, fish for breakfast, and the reality of family travel dynamics. Plus, we get the scoop on her son Luca’s next big chapter—he’s headed to school in the UK!
Whether you’re dreaming of cherry blossoms or planning your own Japanese getaway, this episode is full of must-hear tips, hilarious culture shock moments, and the kind of real talk only Christine and Saphira can deliver. Say konnichiwa to travel inspo—and yes, you’ll thank us later.